Interesting post. Here’s some thoughts. Much of life is the undoing of something that shouldn’t have been done, or could have been done differently. Life’s an inner game, everything hinges on the self, so self mastery is the key.

As humans, we’re given the ability to think at a higher level. Unfortunately, often we don’t. Or at least, not in the way we were designed to. For many, ‘free will’ or ‘free thinking’ is just their belief system in disguise.

The best teachings clear away the fog, so people’s unique power can surface. We broaden the channel by opening it, rather than by constricting it. When we’re in the flow, there are few obstacles or problems. When we become more (of our-self), we need less. And the control is in letting go of the control. Trying to control only reinforces what we’re trying to escape from.

Some words of wisdom from the Tao; “The master accomplishes much without doing”. Know thyself, and self mastery, that’s the key. I’ve created a programme around that, it may be of interest.
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Many people who seek “advice” already know what to do, they are usually just looking for permission or reassurance to act or excuses to not act. The best way I’ve found is to quiet the mind and be alone and then connect with that deeper inner part of me and then find out what is right for me at that moment.

But let me ask you something, how valid is integrity is this new world? How can be just know what is right and what is wrong?

Visa services, why do you need others to listen to you? I would look within to see where that is coming from. What others do, say, or think is frankly none of my business. If they do something that I can clearly see is not in their best interest, then the best I can do is offer my assistance but ultimately I honor their choice.

In the grand scheme of things, I can not know what is best for their path. Sometimes we have to take a step back to take 2 steps forward and if someone else is taking a step back I allow them to do so.