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	<title>Comments on: Is the Need for Perfection Holding You Back?</title>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 11:49:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Penis therapy</title>
		<link>http://www.yangtown.com/inner-game/is-the-need-for-perfection-holding-you-back/#comment-3268</link>
		<dc:creator>Penis therapy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absolutely agree, in that you have to live with imperfections both with yourself, and with your partner. That's supposed to be a part of life. But the most important thing is too keep on the "improvement mode" all the time, and not give up at anything.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely agree, in that you have to live with imperfections both with yourself, and with your partner. That&#8217;s supposed to be a part of life. But the most important thing is too keep on the &#8220;improvement mode&#8221; all the time, and not give up at anything.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.yangtown.com/inner-game/is-the-need-for-perfection-holding-you-back/#comment-1771</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 03:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Aidin.  Yeah sometimes it's good to "throw some shit on the wall and see what sticks" just to get the creative juices flowing.  Cheers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Aidin.  Yeah sometimes it&#8217;s good to &#8220;throw some shit on the wall and see what sticks&#8221; just to get the creative juices flowing.  Cheers.</p>
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		<title>By: Aidin</title>
		<link>http://www.yangtown.com/inner-game/is-the-need-for-perfection-holding-you-back/#comment-1764</link>
		<dc:creator>Aidin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2008 18:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You guys inspire me. I enjoy programming game projects as a hobby and I feel I become more perfectionist because of it. I have often deliberately written sloppy code to give some room for growth. I also started writing funny comments and log messages as art. This made me think if not most problem solving and logical thinking skills have perfectionism side effects - like the airplane pilot that always gets corrected by his control tower.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You guys inspire me. I enjoy programming game projects as a hobby and I feel I become more perfectionist because of it. I have often deliberately written sloppy code to give some room for growth. I also started writing funny comments and log messages as art. This made me think if not most problem solving and logical thinking skills have perfectionism side effects - like the airplane pilot that always gets corrected by his control tower.</p>
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		<title>By: Experiencing Energy Healing &#124; Yang Town</title>
		<link>http://www.yangtown.com/inner-game/is-the-need-for-perfection-holding-you-back/#comment-1516</link>
		<dc:creator>Experiencing Energy Healing &#124; Yang Town</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 21:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I thank him and go home.&#160; That night I did not shower but again drank a few beers and partied.&#160; The next day, however, was anything BUT normal.&#160; The entire day I felt like I was lighter, almost like I was floating just a little.&#160; I wrote in my journal about some realizations about myself and life.&#160; I accepted myself on a whole new level and came to terms with my own imperfections (which led to this post).&#160; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I thank him and go home.&nbsp; That night I did not shower but again drank a few beers and partied.&nbsp; The next day, however, was anything BUT normal.&nbsp; The entire day I felt like I was lighter, almost like I was floating just a little.&nbsp; I wrote in my journal about some realizations about myself and life.&nbsp; I accepted myself on a whole new level and came to terms with my own imperfections (which led to this post).&nbsp; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Andielle</title>
		<link>http://www.yangtown.com/inner-game/is-the-need-for-perfection-holding-you-back/#comment-1493</link>
		<dc:creator>Andielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 00:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Truth, insight and strength.  Beautiful post</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Truth, insight and strength.  Beautiful post</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 20:12:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow man, that was beautiful.  I think that was the first time I stopped and became present after reading a comment.  You're totally right about the imperfection in the roots and the corners, I didn't even think about it that way.  The imperfection makes it real, I suppose,  like nature.  True nature is beautiful, as you mention, with all its unique imperfections....thanks Bart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow man, that was beautiful.  I think that was the first time I stopped and became present after reading a comment.  You&#8217;re totally right about the imperfection in the roots and the corners, I didn&#8217;t even think about it that way.  The imperfection makes it real, I suppose,  like nature.  True nature is beautiful, as you mention, with all its unique imperfections&#8230;.thanks Bart.</p>
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		<title>By: Bart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 00:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This got me thinking about art, and nature.  

What's interesting, is that you hear from a lot of people about the look and feel of your blog. (BTW, thanks for the video!) One thing that gives it that sense of earthy refreshment is it's IMPERFECTION.  Look at the root outgrowths in the corners, see the non-homogeneous backdrop.  

You've already been letting others enjoy the bliss of imperfection, and maybe didn't know it.

In the movie The Last Samurai, Katsumoto tells Cruise something to the effect that he is writing a poem and searching for a perfect cherry blossom and that if you spent your whole life looking, your life would not have been wasted. In the end, Katsumoto reveals that the secret in his death throws that all of the cherry blossoms were perfect. 

Often  we see a photo of something, a perfect visual representation of it, we often don't think of it as art. But when we see a great artist paint it, not in perfection, but in it's true nature, it becomes beautiful. Powerful art transfers the essence of it.

A nice looking tree has bends, knots, gnarls, sway. Straight lines, solid colors, sharp corners just don't feel natural.

 One thing that you mentioned about Stephane that I really like too, is that he really doesn't give a crap - he just accepts himself. He doesn't just act like he doesn't care, he actually doesn't give a flying fartdoodle about the judgements of others.

Back to the blossoms though - I make the argument that there is perfection, perfection in the acceptance of being.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This got me thinking about art, and nature.  </p>
<p>What&#8217;s interesting, is that you hear from a lot of people about the look and feel of your blog. (BTW, thanks for the video!) One thing that gives it that sense of earthy refreshment is it&#8217;s IMPERFECTION.  Look at the root outgrowths in the corners, see the non-homogeneous backdrop.  </p>
<p>You&#8217;ve already been letting others enjoy the bliss of imperfection, and maybe didn&#8217;t know it.</p>
<p>In the movie The Last Samurai, Katsumoto tells Cruise something to the effect that he is writing a poem and searching for a perfect cherry blossom and that if you spent your whole life looking, your life would not have been wasted. In the end, Katsumoto reveals that the secret in his death throws that all of the cherry blossoms were perfect. </p>
<p>Often  we see a photo of something, a perfect visual representation of it, we often don&#8217;t think of it as art. But when we see a great artist paint it, not in perfection, but in it&#8217;s true nature, it becomes beautiful. Powerful art transfers the essence of it.</p>
<p>A nice looking tree has bends, knots, gnarls, sway. Straight lines, solid colors, sharp corners just don&#8217;t feel natural.</p>
<p> One thing that you mentioned about Stephane that I really like too, is that he really doesn&#8217;t give a crap - he just accepts himself. He doesn&#8217;t just act like he doesn&#8217;t care, he actually doesn&#8217;t give a flying fartdoodle about the judgements of others.</p>
<p>Back to the blossoms though - I make the argument that there is perfection, perfection in the acceptance of being.</p>
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